Connection is Connection

You’re not going to always align with the people that you love. It hurts my heart to even say it, but it’s the truth. When I live according to my innate and higher self and hold space for the best version of me, sometimes I grow at a more rapid pace than some of the beautiful souls that I know and love- and that’s ok. But for me to stay true to ME I have to let them go and move forward. I have to ‘leave them behind.’

So when this happens I allow myself time to grieve the loss. Because I honestly don’t know if they will choose to rise up and join me. I don’t know if they will step into their power and their truth to live their best lives. And it’s not my job to do it and I surely won’t make them wrong for it. We are all on our own journeys, learning our own lessons for soul growth and abundance. The faster you grow, typically the more souls you leave behind and the more lonely you feel. Thank God I love my own company and hold space for all the amazing souls that the universe will bring my way 💓So take the time you need to mourn. Friendships and romantic love- connection is connection, and all souls are worth honoring. I love you ❤️ #namaste

If you are ready to really uplevel, to step up into your truth, and you need help- reach out.  My specialty is connecting you with your higher self.  I want the best for you, now and always.

Knowledge is Power✨

…but… what if you don’t use it

It’s so easy to caught up in the ‘should’s’ You know, I should just finish this, I should wash the dishes first, I should say this so I don’t hurt their feelings.. the list is endless.

What if you allowed yourself to TRUST your knowledge and really step into your POWER

I’m not talking about your educated mind here. Anyone can google search for almost anything nowadays. I’m talking about learning how to tap into your God given innate intuitive intelligence. That voice within who always knows the best next step to take. Who always knows the most direct path to growth, bliss and abundance💰🙏🏻💓

Being able to slow down enough to listen and tap in is a gift you give yourself❤️ It’s showing your inner child that you are worthy, and it’s acknowledging that we can’t do everything alone. We need guidance and we need tribe. This allows for the smoothest flow and optimal abundance. 🌟

So who are you creating yourself to BE today? Are you willing to stretch yourself way past your comfort zone in order to reach the life you’ve always dreamed about? Have you even written down your deepest desires? Have you gotten super clear and specific?

Let me tell you what my life looks like when I dream big:

I’m boarding a private jet with my sexy husband (who treats me like a queen 👑), while we are both babywearing our adorable well behaved children. I’m looking super sheikh with my sunnies on and looking around grateful AF. We get on the plane to be waited on hand and foot and served amazing food. The kids nap while we make googley eyes at each other and then pull out our laptops to work on our passion projects. After a great flight we land in an extraordinarily beautiful location (Bali perhaps🌺) and then check out the amazing villa that we are renting for a month with some of our favorite friends and family. We meet up all over the world to co-create, adventure and explore 💜

Do I know HOW this is gunna happen? Nope. I have some ideas, but I’m leaving that up to the Universe. I’m completely unattached because I know that I know that I know that this is my life. And it’s close. So I continue to up-level my vibrational field and to serve so that my frequency and my dream resonate together and become reality. Maybe I’ll see you there 😘

What is your 5D dream reality? Comment below if you would like to share and get those good vibes rollin❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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“It’s too good”

When it get’s reallllllly good💫

We are always evolving and growing in our soul experiences. I am not immune. As limiting beliefs come up for me, I’m thankful that I’m at the point in my journey where I almost immediately catch myself. So here I am, relaxing at the coffee shop, getting ready to do some work, but first I get my index card out to work on my gratitude list for the day. And as I’m thinking about what I’m grateful for, into my head pop’s:

“It’s too good” and then fear.

I’ve noticed this coming up for me a lot lately. Life is evolving in a positive direction SO FAST that it’s f’in SCARY. And I don’t trust it. I don’t trust that this trend will continue. I am still pushing against the abundance of the Universe and what is truly possible.

The more I sit in this feeling, and allow it to come up for me, the faster I am able to process it and watch it continue just floating on by. Observing your thoughts as separate from you is an incredibly empowering experience.

I am worthy of an amazing life.
I am worthy of great love.
I am worthy of financial abundance.
I am worthy of a wildly successful business.
I am worthy of breakthroughs every day.
I am worthy of investing in myself.
And SO ARE YOU.

Sending so much love to each and every one of you 

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Boomerang

Some days the Universe provides for you in ways that profoundly shift and open up who you are for the world. It allows for a glimpse past the now and into your potentiality. Today was one of these days for me. To say that it has been overwhelming and profound is an understatement. I met with a friend today who pointed out areas in which I had profoundly shifted his life, how it opened up his sense of empowerment and excitement, and he shared tools from his 40 year career in consulting to tie together loose ends for me that I had no idea could even be connected. My BEing with him was an awareness shift that simplified and modified my life path- yet solidified the next few steps in my life plan. I have always felt that with my perspective I have great gifts to share with the world. I have always known that I am a part of a massive movement to spread love, authenticity and abundance to the masses. A voice and leader for massive paradigm shifts and revolutionary ideas. A gift for helping others out of their own way and into the light of their truth. Sharing their innate soulful existence with the world. As I throw myself into the slingshot of life, trusting and allowing the Universe/God/Creator/Source to provide for me my gifts unfold. Sometimes I’m so blind to them that I have to be shown by others. My heart is wide open today. The gratitude that I have has literally had me crying for a few hours now. I wish for you all the profound healing that comes with this. For as terrifying as it is for me to be exceptionally bold, fully authentic I am equally as calm, centered and present. My life has entered a level that I cannot explain. Major processing is happening before the continuing evolution of Tatum will be ready to share. I love you. Me

Allowing

Sometimes we block our own vibrancy by pushing instead of allowing. Even I have to remind myself that it’s supposed to be easy. One big change makes me want to make a lot of big changes and ‘old me’ wants to make it happen!! Fast!! Let’s do this!! Such masculine energy that pushes me to push through the field towards what is not for me. Regularly I get reminders from the universe to relax, rest and lean back. Into the divine feminine and the energy of flow, ease and abundance. Everything that is meant for me will be mine. Divine timing is real. Have faith. It’s a practice. When I’m in flow the world opens for me. When I’m not the doors close in my face. Happy that I’m getting very fast at noticing when I am not congruent with what I want to create energetically. Sometimes I fall back into old habits without even realizing it and wonder why I’m feeling off. Reflection is everything. Time alone is priceless. Look within. You already have all the answers and guidance you need.

11/11 Manifestation & Abundance

Hello my loves!

I am absolutely stoked to be writing to you today about 1111! As some of you may know, today is HUGE for humanity! This is a new moon in Scorpio, and coincides with the magical numbers 11/11. I am not going to pretend that I know heaps about astrology, numerology and the cosmos, but I do love to read about it and watch videos. What I do know to be true is that I have felt the energies and shifts coming for awhile now. Today is a very big day for manifesting the abundance that you truly desire in life. This could be anything from bringing in your Twin Flame to manifesting wealth (whatever this means for you!)

The Universe always provides and all you have to do is let go and allow the Universe to flow through you.  This can be much easier said than done, but luckily today it should be easier than other days.  One of the easy ways that I let go is through Meditation (I highly recommend Guided Meditations on YouTube by Michael A. Jacobs).  If difficult emotions come up for me I tend to write.  Then I go to my room, maybe light some sage and have quiet time.  I write out everything that I am feeling, acknowledge it, and then burn it.  I allow it to release into the Universe.

Letting go is such an important part of manifestation- you must close the door to the past to move through and towards the future.  Once you have taken time to heal and put the past in the past (where it belongs!), then you are ready to manifest.  Only you truly know what works for you.  If you are new to learning about the Law of Attraction then trial out different ways to see what works for you.  I plan on spending a nice chunk of time today writing out exactly what I would like for my future.

It is also important to take time to say Thank YOU! Not just because it is Thanksgiving month, but gratitude acknowledges the role that the Universe has played in your life and opens up doors/windows towards more abundance.  Stay open to receiving and allow for surprises 🙂

In honor of gratitude, I would like to thank one of my biggest supporters and an amazing friend Albert Qian.  I have attached audio from our Blab interview below.

Thank you all for joining me on this journey of self discovery and creation.

Love,

Tatum