Ladies this post is for you 😘

My vibrational frequency keeps lifting higher and as I grow I am noticing the quality of men that I am attracting uplevel dramatically.

I’m now attracting fantastic men who are at the top of their field, financially stable, well-travelled, heart centered and think they are ready for marriage.

Old Tatum would have been so excited that she let her boundaries go lax and accepted less than what she knows she deserves.

So keep watching actions!!! Lean back and allow them space to choose you. If they don’t step up, that’s OK! I love plenty of people from afar now that I truly know my worth.

My energy is sacred- I work hard for this! And all of it is redirected back into myself for my growth and my soul purpose. For as much as I LOVE to LOVE, and love to share my love- it can’t be one sided. And less than what we know we deserve. If I’m into you, you know it. I’m super obvious about it. And bonus- I’ll tell you (just in case!)!!!! But there comes a point where it’s shit or get off the pot. I won’t wait around anymore for someone to be ready. No matter how bad I may want them.

I am willing to wait for a man who pursues me,
…treats me like a queen.
…respects my time.
…asks me out on real dates.
…is chivalrous.
…listens to me.
…creates space for me to feel heard.
…etc.

New Tatum makes it clear from the beginning now who I am, what I’m creating for my life, what’s ok & what’s not ok.  And sticks to it, no matter what the response may be.

For as nice as it is to be noticed and appreciated and seen- be firm in your truth. You get what you accept.  And you are worthy of the best.

I’m a Queen ready for my King. 

Knowledge is Power✨

…but… what if you don’t use it

It’s so easy to caught up in the ‘should’s’ You know, I should just finish this, I should wash the dishes first, I should say this so I don’t hurt their feelings.. the list is endless.

What if you allowed yourself to TRUST your knowledge and really step into your POWER

I’m not talking about your educated mind here. Anyone can google search for almost anything nowadays. I’m talking about learning how to tap into your God given innate intuitive intelligence. That voice within who always knows the best next step to take. Who always knows the most direct path to growth, bliss and abundance💰🙏🏻💓

Being able to slow down enough to listen and tap in is a gift you give yourself❤️ It’s showing your inner child that you are worthy, and it’s acknowledging that we can’t do everything alone. We need guidance and we need tribe. This allows for the smoothest flow and optimal abundance. 🌟

So who are you creating yourself to BE today? Are you willing to stretch yourself way past your comfort zone in order to reach the life you’ve always dreamed about? Have you even written down your deepest desires? Have you gotten super clear and specific?

Let me tell you what my life looks like when I dream big:

I’m boarding a private jet with my sexy husband (who treats me like a queen 👑), while we are both babywearing our adorable well behaved children. I’m looking super sheikh with my sunnies on and looking around grateful AF. We get on the plane to be waited on hand and foot and served amazing food. The kids nap while we make googley eyes at each other and then pull out our laptops to work on our passion projects. After a great flight we land in an extraordinarily beautiful location (Bali perhaps🌺) and then check out the amazing villa that we are renting for a month with some of our favorite friends and family. We meet up all over the world to co-create, adventure and explore 💜

Do I know HOW this is gunna happen? Nope. I have some ideas, but I’m leaving that up to the Universe. I’m completely unattached because I know that I know that I know that this is my life. And it’s close. So I continue to up-level my vibrational field and to serve so that my frequency and my dream resonate together and become reality. Maybe I’ll see you there 😘

What is your 5D dream reality? Comment below if you would like to share and get those good vibes rollin❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

If anyone would like Coaching- specifically on how to rapidly transform and up-level your life-message me😘

Haters Gunna Hate!

…But How Long is YOUR Recovery Time?

Haters are showing up in unique and interesting ways for me 🙂  While most would probably get super upset, I actually get a little bit giddy about it.  It is a chance for me to reassess where I am at, and make sure that my boundaries are well defined.  I knew that once I began putting myself out there in a big way, that it was likely they would come, but what I find incredibly interesting is HOW they are arriving.   My awesome haters aren’t coming to criticize my business (at least not yet! lol), they are showing up in a non-related context in which I made one of the least charged and most neutral Facebook comments ever.  It just goes to show that trolls make no sense, and seriously have nothing better to do than hate on people.

Giving that this week’s theme is massive THANKS! I am going to start by thanking my lovely haters and sharing a few awesome tips to deal with them without losing your mind or dignity.

  1. It’s definitely THEM and not you.  This doesn’t mean that you are not responsible for your life actions and repercussions, but that just because someone takes issue with something does not mean it now has to become YOUR issue.  People are highly sensitive nowadays and easily offended.  And most of all they LOVE to assume.
  2. Don’t respond.  It doesn’t matter if what they say is right/wrong/vicious/lies/etc.  It fuels their fire, and give them more power.  That is what they crave.  They want to prove why they are right and you are wrong.  So not worth playing that game!
  3. Turn it around to fuel YOUR fire! Thanks guys! I was debating what to write my blog post on, now I know 😉
  4. Munch on what they had to say, and see if it rings true for you.  There is something to be said for constructive criticism.  Read a few comments, mull on it for a few minutes and see if they A. Understood what you were saying in the first place (likely NO), and B. Have their own naughty agenda.  If they are giving real feedback, then take the time to thank them and move on.

It does not have to be any more complicated than this.  You can let them ruin your day, or you can mull it over and let it go.  How quickly you are able to feel the emotions and move through it will let you know how you are doing on your own personal growth journey.  Thanks haters for bringing me many lovely signs from the Universe today that I am on the right path.

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11/11 Manifestation & Abundance

Hello my loves!

I am absolutely stoked to be writing to you today about 1111! As some of you may know, today is HUGE for humanity! This is a new moon in Scorpio, and coincides with the magical numbers 11/11. I am not going to pretend that I know heaps about astrology, numerology and the cosmos, but I do love to read about it and watch videos. What I do know to be true is that I have felt the energies and shifts coming for awhile now. Today is a very big day for manifesting the abundance that you truly desire in life. This could be anything from bringing in your Twin Flame to manifesting wealth (whatever this means for you!)

The Universe always provides and all you have to do is let go and allow the Universe to flow through you.  This can be much easier said than done, but luckily today it should be easier than other days.  One of the easy ways that I let go is through Meditation (I highly recommend Guided Meditations on YouTube by Michael A. Jacobs).  If difficult emotions come up for me I tend to write.  Then I go to my room, maybe light some sage and have quiet time.  I write out everything that I am feeling, acknowledge it, and then burn it.  I allow it to release into the Universe.

Letting go is such an important part of manifestation- you must close the door to the past to move through and towards the future.  Once you have taken time to heal and put the past in the past (where it belongs!), then you are ready to manifest.  Only you truly know what works for you.  If you are new to learning about the Law of Attraction then trial out different ways to see what works for you.  I plan on spending a nice chunk of time today writing out exactly what I would like for my future.

It is also important to take time to say Thank YOU! Not just because it is Thanksgiving month, but gratitude acknowledges the role that the Universe has played in your life and opens up doors/windows towards more abundance.  Stay open to receiving and allow for surprises 🙂

In honor of gratitude, I would like to thank one of my biggest supporters and an amazing friend Albert Qian.  I have attached audio from our Blab interview below.

Thank you all for joining me on this journey of self discovery and creation.

Love,

Tatum