Ladies this post is for you 😘

My vibrational frequency keeps lifting higher and as I grow I am noticing the quality of men that I am attracting uplevel dramatically.

I’m now attracting fantastic men who are at the top of their field, financially stable, well-travelled, heart centered and think they are ready for marriage.

Old Tatum would have been so excited that she let her boundaries go lax and accepted less than what she knows she deserves.

So keep watching actions!!! Lean back and allow them space to choose you. If they don’t step up, that’s OK! I love plenty of people from afar now that I truly know my worth.

My energy is sacred- I work hard for this! And all of it is redirected back into myself for my growth and my soul purpose. For as much as I LOVE to LOVE, and love to share my love- it can’t be one sided. And less than what we know we deserve. If I’m into you, you know it. I’m super obvious about it. And bonus- I’ll tell you (just in case!)!!!! But there comes a point where it’s shit or get off the pot. I won’t wait around anymore for someone to be ready. No matter how bad I may want them.

I am willing to wait for a man who pursues me,
…treats me like a queen.
…respects my time.
…asks me out on real dates.
…is chivalrous.
…listens to me.
…creates space for me to feel heard.
…etc.

New Tatum makes it clear from the beginning now who I am, what I’m creating for my life, what’s ok & what’s not ok.  And sticks to it, no matter what the response may be.

For as nice as it is to be noticed and appreciated and seen- be firm in your truth. You get what you accept.  And you are worthy of the best.

I’m a Queen ready for my King. 

Knowledge is Power✨

…but… what if you don’t use it

It’s so easy to caught up in the ‘should’s’ You know, I should just finish this, I should wash the dishes first, I should say this so I don’t hurt their feelings.. the list is endless.

What if you allowed yourself to TRUST your knowledge and really step into your POWER

I’m not talking about your educated mind here. Anyone can google search for almost anything nowadays. I’m talking about learning how to tap into your God given innate intuitive intelligence. That voice within who always knows the best next step to take. Who always knows the most direct path to growth, bliss and abundance💰🙏🏻💓

Being able to slow down enough to listen and tap in is a gift you give yourself❤️ It’s showing your inner child that you are worthy, and it’s acknowledging that we can’t do everything alone. We need guidance and we need tribe. This allows for the smoothest flow and optimal abundance. 🌟

So who are you creating yourself to BE today? Are you willing to stretch yourself way past your comfort zone in order to reach the life you’ve always dreamed about? Have you even written down your deepest desires? Have you gotten super clear and specific?

Let me tell you what my life looks like when I dream big:

I’m boarding a private jet with my sexy husband (who treats me like a queen 👑), while we are both babywearing our adorable well behaved children. I’m looking super sheikh with my sunnies on and looking around grateful AF. We get on the plane to be waited on hand and foot and served amazing food. The kids nap while we make googley eyes at each other and then pull out our laptops to work on our passion projects. After a great flight we land in an extraordinarily beautiful location (Bali perhaps🌺) and then check out the amazing villa that we are renting for a month with some of our favorite friends and family. We meet up all over the world to co-create, adventure and explore 💜

Do I know HOW this is gunna happen? Nope. I have some ideas, but I’m leaving that up to the Universe. I’m completely unattached because I know that I know that I know that this is my life. And it’s close. So I continue to up-level my vibrational field and to serve so that my frequency and my dream resonate together and become reality. Maybe I’ll see you there 😘

What is your 5D dream reality? Comment below if you would like to share and get those good vibes rollin❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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