Ladies this post is for you 😘

My vibrational frequency keeps lifting higher and as I grow I am noticing the quality of men that I am attracting uplevel dramatically.

I’m now attracting fantastic men who are at the top of their field, financially stable, well-travelled, heart centered and think they are ready for marriage.

Old Tatum would have been so excited that she let her boundaries go lax and accepted less than what she knows she deserves.

So keep watching actions!!! Lean back and allow them space to choose you. If they don’t step up, that’s OK! I love plenty of people from afar now that I truly know my worth.

My energy is sacred- I work hard for this! And all of it is redirected back into myself for my growth and my soul purpose. For as much as I LOVE to LOVE, and love to share my love- it can’t be one sided. And less than what we know we deserve. If I’m into you, you know it. I’m super obvious about it. And bonus- I’ll tell you (just in case!)!!!! But there comes a point where it’s shit or get off the pot. I won’t wait around anymore for someone to be ready. No matter how bad I may want them.

I am willing to wait for a man who pursues me,
…treats me like a queen.
…respects my time.
…asks me out on real dates.
…is chivalrous.
…listens to me.
…creates space for me to feel heard.
…etc.

New Tatum makes it clear from the beginning now who I am, what I’m creating for my life, what’s ok & what’s not ok.  And sticks to it, no matter what the response may be.

For as nice as it is to be noticed and appreciated and seen- be firm in your truth. You get what you accept.  And you are worthy of the best.

I’m a Queen ready for my King. 

“It’s too good”

When it get’s reallllllly good💫

We are always evolving and growing in our soul experiences. I am not immune. As limiting beliefs come up for me, I’m thankful that I’m at the point in my journey where I almost immediately catch myself. So here I am, relaxing at the coffee shop, getting ready to do some work, but first I get my index card out to work on my gratitude list for the day. And as I’m thinking about what I’m grateful for, into my head pop’s:

“It’s too good” and then fear.

I’ve noticed this coming up for me a lot lately. Life is evolving in a positive direction SO FAST that it’s f’in SCARY. And I don’t trust it. I don’t trust that this trend will continue. I am still pushing against the abundance of the Universe and what is truly possible.

The more I sit in this feeling, and allow it to come up for me, the faster I am able to process it and watch it continue just floating on by. Observing your thoughts as separate from you is an incredibly empowering experience.

I am worthy of an amazing life.
I am worthy of great love.
I am worthy of financial abundance.
I am worthy of a wildly successful business.
I am worthy of breakthroughs every day.
I am worthy of investing in myself.
And SO ARE YOU.

Sending so much love to each and every one of you 

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11/11 Manifestation & Abundance

Hello my loves!

I am absolutely stoked to be writing to you today about 1111! As some of you may know, today is HUGE for humanity! This is a new moon in Scorpio, and coincides with the magical numbers 11/11. I am not going to pretend that I know heaps about astrology, numerology and the cosmos, but I do love to read about it and watch videos. What I do know to be true is that I have felt the energies and shifts coming for awhile now. Today is a very big day for manifesting the abundance that you truly desire in life. This could be anything from bringing in your Twin Flame to manifesting wealth (whatever this means for you!)

The Universe always provides and all you have to do is let go and allow the Universe to flow through you.  This can be much easier said than done, but luckily today it should be easier than other days.  One of the easy ways that I let go is through Meditation (I highly recommend Guided Meditations on YouTube by Michael A. Jacobs).  If difficult emotions come up for me I tend to write.  Then I go to my room, maybe light some sage and have quiet time.  I write out everything that I am feeling, acknowledge it, and then burn it.  I allow it to release into the Universe.

Letting go is such an important part of manifestation- you must close the door to the past to move through and towards the future.  Once you have taken time to heal and put the past in the past (where it belongs!), then you are ready to manifest.  Only you truly know what works for you.  If you are new to learning about the Law of Attraction then trial out different ways to see what works for you.  I plan on spending a nice chunk of time today writing out exactly what I would like for my future.

It is also important to take time to say Thank YOU! Not just because it is Thanksgiving month, but gratitude acknowledges the role that the Universe has played in your life and opens up doors/windows towards more abundance.  Stay open to receiving and allow for surprises 🙂

In honor of gratitude, I would like to thank one of my biggest supporters and an amazing friend Albert Qian.  I have attached audio from our Blab interview below.

Thank you all for joining me on this journey of self discovery and creation.

Love,

Tatum

Welcome to Uniquely Tatum!

Hi Loves!

As you may have guessed from the content on my site, what you see is what you get.  I am 100% authentic to who I am and my truth! I am an artist, lover, writer, editor, coach and entrepreneur. Of course this is just a tiny hint of the true essence of who I am, just like any label or description is for you as well.  If any of you are familiar with Landmark Education (which is AMAZING!) then you may know this special phrasing for who you declare yourself to be:

Who I am is the possibility of Love, Acceptance & Inspiration, and that is WHO I am!

It is my aim to always be my most vibrant, positive, happy self.  Because I actively choose to create this every day, I am blessed with an incredible life.  Like any human, I still have shitty days.. but the good news is that I know it is all a reflection of perception and energy.  Keep being awesome and I look forward to sharing, growing and loving with you!

<3

Tatum