Ladies this post is for you 😘

My vibrational frequency keeps lifting higher and as I grow I am noticing the quality of men that I am attracting uplevel dramatically.

I’m now attracting fantastic men who are at the top of their field, financially stable, well-travelled, heart centered and think they are ready for marriage.

Old Tatum would have been so excited that she let her boundaries go lax and accepted less than what she knows she deserves.

So keep watching actions!!! Lean back and allow them space to choose you. If they don’t step up, that’s OK! I love plenty of people from afar now that I truly know my worth.

My energy is sacred- I work hard for this! And all of it is redirected back into myself for my growth and my soul purpose. For as much as I LOVE to LOVE, and love to share my love- it can’t be one sided. And less than what we know we deserve. If I’m into you, you know it. I’m super obvious about it. And bonus- I’ll tell you (just in case!)!!!! But there comes a point where it’s shit or get off the pot. I won’t wait around anymore for someone to be ready. No matter how bad I may want them.

I am willing to wait for a man who pursues me,
…treats me like a queen.
…respects my time.
…asks me out on real dates.
…is chivalrous.
…listens to me.
…creates space for me to feel heard.
…etc.

New Tatum makes it clear from the beginning now who I am, what I’m creating for my life, what’s ok & what’s not ok.  And sticks to it, no matter what the response may be.

For as nice as it is to be noticed and appreciated and seen- be firm in your truth. You get what you accept.  And you are worthy of the best.

I’m a Queen ready for my King. 

Boundaries Like a BOSS.

BOUNDARIES ARE THE GREATEST FORM OF SELF LOVE.  

If there’s anything I’ve learned this past year, it’s been defining and refining my personal boundaries.  Strong boundaries directly correlate with MY level of self-respect and what I think I deserve.  Essentially they tell the world my worth.

WHAT YOU ALLOW IS WHAT SHOWS UP

We are meant to THRIVE in love and authenticity!  The more I honor my personal boundaries the more happiness and flow I experience.  Congruency and integrity with Self allow for ease.

THOUGHTS BECOME THINGS

I limit myself more than anyone else- and I know this about myself.  I’m willing to bet that you do too.  Have you ever REALLY actively monitored your thoughts?  Take the time to acknowledge their presence and then transmute them.  Use your personal power to create new possibilities!

THIS IS OK, AND THIS IS NOT OK

It’s as simple as that.  If it feels congruent with who you are and your value system- go with it.  If it doesn’t then SPEAK UP for yourself!!!

DOWNSIDES

When you are firm in who you are for the world, and your boundaries, it can shine a light onto where others let their own boundaries slide.  It’s confronting.  It’s scary.  And sometimes people may lash out.  But remember, you are honoring yourself on such a powerful soul level and sometimes leveling up and letting go can be difficult and satisfying at the same time. Personal integrity feels sooooo good though.

UPSIDES

Because I am congruent with my innate- my inner voice- and my life purpose I am in greater Flow with the Universe.  This builds a skillset that transcends across all areas of life.

BONUS: This is the fastest route to joy, abundance and growth that I’ve found yet!

ARE YOU WORTH IT?